I agree that the system is broken. Alimony is usually an atrocity. But I advise against mentioning gender. Turning it into a gender-issue is going to make pe

I agree that the system is broken. Alimony is usually an atrocity. But I advise against mentioning gender. Turning it into a gender-issue is going to make people dislike and downvote you and kill any hope for reform. It's also unfair to women who pay alimony (my half-sister for example).