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I'm a parent who never got to take piano lessons. And I didn't particularly enjoy things that I was made to do when young. And now as a parent with kids, I wis
by dba7dba 10y ago
I'm a parent who never got to take piano lessons. And I didn't particularly enjoy things that I was made to do when young.
And now as a parent with kids, I wish I got a chance to take piano lesson (or any musical instrument) when young. I make kids do things that I know I didn't enjoy when young, like studying, being responsible, facing consequences. And just like me, it's a decade(s) long process.
Obviously there should be reasonable limit on how much you will push your kids to do things they don't want to do. But I believe it's every parent's responsibility to help/push kids experience/learn new things when young. Even if they don't enjoy it (if so, it should not be pushed too hard or for long), it's a success because everyone involved gets to know what the kids enjoy or hate.
I'm not suggesting scheduling every waking hour of a child for an organized activity/study. But more/various activities for young kids are generally a good thing imho.