> being super extra friendly to everyone would help. This is a good idea no matter what your motive. As long as you don't take it to the point of appearing fak

> being super extra friendly to everyone would help. This is a good idea no matter what your motive. As long as you don't take it to the point of appearing fake, or using your niceness to use or manipulate someone. Be genuine, and be nice. And I agree about the women comment. Get out there and meet people, ask people out. If things don't go the way you'd like, you can always ask in an honest manner what the issue was, with the intent to use that feedback to improve yourself.