Go grab some self help books. If you don't know where to look, start with something generic like https://www.amazon.com/New-Earth-Awakening-Purpose-Selection/dp

Go grab some self help books. If you don't know where to look, start with something generic like https://www.amazon.com/New-Earth-Awakening-Purpose-Selection/dp/0452289963/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1486847475&sr=8-3&keywords=eckhart+tolle https://www.amazon.com/New-Earth-Awakening-Purpose-Selection...