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As someone who has made "the big bucks", let me tell you - it's overrated. At least, in the fashion in which people generally proceed once they have capital. T
by madaxe_again 10y ago
As someone who has made "the big bucks", let me tell you - it's overrated. At least, in the fashion in which people generally proceed once they have capital.
The thing is, most of the time one finds that expenditures grow to match income and capital - you have shinier toys, a bigger box to keep them in, and the ratio between income and expense stays constant. You find yourself constantly levering up, reassessing what it is to be rich, aspiring to loftier goals - all of which are just a slight rotation of the hamster wheel.
I finally reached the conclusion that the only winning move is not to play. Sold up. Went frugal (feral?).
I'm now travelling the world marvelling at how far how little can go in some corners, and considering the next move. Subsistence permaculture up a mountain is looking appealing at the moment - and the capital outlay is tiny. I can retire, at 32, and enjoy living.
130k is a lot of money, but so is Seattle. In much of the world, it would be a fortune that you could live off for decades, not a year.
Ultimately it comes down to what you want in life. Money is gas in the tank, which can take you places - but like gasoline, having a lot of it sitting around does little for you - how you apply it is what makes the difference - and even if you have no gas, you can still walk.
So - the question is, what brings you happiness? Not money - many think it does because there's a gap in the chain of logic, whereby the means somehow become the ends, but if you think about what you want money for, it might reveal that money isn't actually what you want, but you've spent long enough in the pursuit of it that your true goals have been left by the wayside.
I can't pretend to have the answers, but I can say that I'm having the time of my life on $20 a day, living in a van.
The other thing that has opened my eyes is that I'm not alone in this conclusion. The more I wander, the more I meet disillusioned entrepreneurs who have likewise sacked it all in to be a vagrant.
I write this sat on the terminal moraine of a glacier, watching a little bird slowly edge closer to me, and the shadows creeping over the mountains. The air smells like moss and honey.
You can't buy this, but I feel something I thought I had lost - happiness.
- monkmartinez 10y agoPretty cool. I hope you don't get sick, sincerely. Also, I hope you've done the hard thinking about the years when you are 50-60+ years of age. Life changes as you age.
- madaxe_again 10y agoI've had my share of health troubles - and it turns out healthcare is surprisingly good and surprisingly affordable in parts of the world where you wouldn't expect it. I had a laparoscopic cholecystectomy in Thailand for $250. In terms of the mysterious future - what's the point in preserving a half-life until the bitter end, an enfeebled and intubated shadow of a living thing? I know plenty of diligent planners who had their plans shattered by fate - I was one. If anything, dicing with my own mortality pushed me towards not worrying about a future that may never happen. If I one day get a serious health nasty, I will likely die. If it's treatable, it's treatable. That will be invariate whether in a hospital in the US, or in a hut in the Andes. I'd rather go out with a nice view. As a culture we seem to put an inordinate focus on our future selves, while neglecting our current selves. Then we wake up at 60 and realise that ahead of us is only arthritis and gout, and the good years are irrevocably gone. Talking to octagenerians is an excellent pastime - we young'n's can learn a lot from their experiences and perspective.
- bromuro 10y agoThis kind of worries are normal when you are used to a job routine, but are out of place once you see how many different opportunities life has to offer, e.g. when traveling around the world. Also how is a good idea to think about the far future when you don't even know where you are the next year?
- nunez 10y agoWhile your story is plenty valid, I think you can see how this would equally apply to someone making $50k that wants to make $130k solely for the improved quality of life. Making $300k or greater might be a hamster wheel rotation for OP, but give them a chance to get on the damn wheel...