Join a board game group, join a martial arts class. You can create your own community. If you feel that your disabilities hold you back from that, then try to f

Join a board game group, join a martial arts class. You can create your own community. If you feel that your disabilities hold you back from that, then try to find a similar group of people in an even more relaxed and safe setting. No one is going to give you the life you want. You have to make it for yourself. Trust me, I wish it was easy too, but my life has improved a lot since I've started taking an active role.