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I have ADHD and it has effected every day of my life since I flunked out of Stanford in 1968. I have a few coping skills that might help you. They focus more
by oldmancoyote 10y ago
I have ADHD and it has effected every day of my life since I flunked out of Stanford in 1968. I have a few coping skills that might help you. They focus more on things involved in getting an education rather than directly on learning itself, but are never-the-less powerful aids to learning.
First: Some kinds of work are better suited to ADHD folks than others. Try to devise an academic career that focus on these activities. Writing on a word processor is an example. The non-linear aspects of re-writing to improve what you have written is a good fit to the non-linear thought processes ADHD folks live by. Begin with stream-of-thought writing, then re-write as inspiration dictates. Structured and Objective programming also is well suited because visual rigorous structure makes is easy to refresh focus with a glance following a distraction, and strict objective practice isolates a single function into a small package that is easy to complete before attention wanders. That programming takes place in a graphical/word processing environment is an additional advantage for ADHD folks. Graphical work like drawing or painting is easy to re-focus on for the same reasons. Any program that offers a dynamic editing environment that permits non-linear editing or permits ratcheting forward a task and easy review would have similar advantages. Planning any activity or writing and organizing notes using a outline processor works well. The point here is don't try to work like other folks. find ways to work like you think: non-linearly.
Second: Dealing with procrastination. Getting started on a task is a massive problem for ADHD folks. Read "Getting Things Done" and implement it on a outline processor. You can't overcome procrastination if you don't know what needs to be done. Next here is a little procedure that works wonders: Sit down on the couch and work up a substantial feeling of guilt for not starting a project. Then make a deal with yourself. If you get up and just get the job started (e.g. scraping the dishes and putting them in the sink or launching an IDE and defining the variables) you will have pushed the task forward and will have earned the right to sit back down. Once you are started however, it is such a relief to have started that there is no way you will want to sit back down.
I realize that these programs are not specifically target at learning for ADHD folk like you are looking for, but they do help quite a bit. For decades now I have pondered what sort of program might directly address this problem. I've been working on something along these lines for a few years now. It might help someday.
Hang in there my friend.
- froh42 10y agoTHANK YOU VERY MUCH. I have what is commonly being described as ADHD (oh, yeah, and I'm a software developer ;-) ) and my son has it as well. I refuse to see ADHD as an illness. It is a different way of thinking (and unfortunatley does not fit too well in our modern indoor office world with 90% "other" people). All your examples led me up to FINALLY having a different word for ADHD that does not involve "disorder". Me and my son, we're having non-linear minds. Time to find non-linear things to do, so we can be happy. Thanks. P.S.: Your coping strategies: I've developed roughly the same ones for myself as well. GTD, done. Pomodoro, done. Non-linear job, done. They work quite well.
- dx034 10y agoWhile I generally support what you say, I think it's important to note that coping with a disorder/condition/different mind is much harder for a child than for an adult. University offers some flexibility on how to work, and work in companies often even more. But schools mostly can't offer that flexibility, so treating ADHD (or at least discussing it with teachers) can be very helpful.
- qwrusz 10y agoNice post. If I may add one coping skill that may work well for folks, especially those who strongly exhibit the "hyperactivity" in ADHD: One alternative to stream-of-thought writing when getting started is stream-of-thought speaking into a recording device. Basically if you can't sit down and write that paper? Try bouncing around the room as you feel you need to but put a voice recorder in your hand and speak the words you want to write in the paper. Then continue with the next editing/rewriting steps as needed. This doesn't work for all types of writing. But when it does fit, what you thought would take hours in front of blank pages suddenly is a first draft done in a fraction of the time. Sure lots of editing is needed, but seeing a multi-page rough 1st draft you created (without touching a keyboard btw) is huge boost of a start. Good luck
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