So why wasn't she helping him to process this pain and mourn his losses rather than simply ignoring his pleas for help? "Giving someone space" is not the same

So why wasn't she helping him to process this pain and mourn his losses rather than simply ignoring his pleas for help? "Giving someone space" is not the same as just telling them you don't believe them and turning away from them. I remain convinced that she's a narcissistic person who doesn't know what love is, and this story is heartbreaking for all the wrong reasons.