I agree. I don't think you can get past that stage without a few 'aha' moments that make you rethink things. The mindset might be a bit of a trap because it ca

I agree. I don't think you can get past that stage without a few 'aha' moments that make you rethink things. The mindset might be a bit of a trap because it can make you more isolated, which could then make those 'aha' moments less likely. In that position, you're right, waiting for it to fix itself won't be very effective so a more proactive approach sounds better.