So your relocation package was > $30k? That's my point is that I think anything they want to do should be covered with that. It's pretty generous. Real estat

So your relocation package was > $30k? That's my point is that I think anything they want to do should be covered with that. It's pretty generous. Real estate fees for a 1M house is approximately $50k in Canada. Should the company really cover that, plus everything else? That's approaching $100k relocation package for a Dev Manager, if he already lives in a high-cost area of Canada. At some point, it doesn't make financial sense to switch jobs, there's no shame in that. Personally, I would never recommend anyone to come to SF Bay Area if they have a family with children, and if they spouse isn't a high income earner as well. Especially if they already have a house, it's going to be a big step down. I have friends who make > $400k combined that can't afford a reasonably priced home in the Bay Area.