How do we recreate or find a society of people who have technology, but are not obsessed with pre-remembering things? People who still enjoy where they actually

How do we recreate or find a society of people who have technology, but are not obsessed with pre-remembering things? People who still enjoy where they actually are, rather than trying to edit and document everything for posterity as it happens? Could there be special device-free venues -- bars, coffeshops, and so on where people go there to actually talk with people around them, where headphones and tiny screens are not allowed? How do we fix this?