I am personally obsessed with lists, rankings and statistics in general so I do not know how universal my desires are... but: Try making a weighted list of you

I am personally obsessed with lists, rankings and statistics in general so I do not know how universal my desires are... but: Try making a weighted list of your dearest possessions. In as much depth as possible to its dearest extent. Not the "true wealth" things such as love, family, friends et cetera, but instead your physical objects like laptop or favorite books. I found that the objects low on the list I didn't care so much about and did not use too often. It was easy to get rid of them then. Putting on paper what my unconscious already valued made this process much more comprehensible and satisfactory to me. I find that the more I eliminate in excess the more I can love the things that I do care about. Maybe that is true for you as well.