> usually, if you don't get to have a SO, chances are that there is something wrong with yourself too. As a single guy, sure there's plenty of things wrong wit

> usually, if you don't get to have a SO, chances are that there is something wrong with yourself too. As a single guy, sure there's plenty of things wrong with me. But another factor is that not everyone values having a relationship in the same way. To use a car analogy: my brother is really into cars, he likes to have a really nice car and is willing to spend a lot of money on one. Would I like a nice car, sure, but I don't really care enough to spend the money on one, and that is fine. Same goes for an SO: would I like one, sure. Am I willing to spend a lot of time and effort finding one, not really. And that is fine too.