TL;DR "Helping people is evil." I get the point you're making of the people who didn't get the job that were hurt. And the employer was hurt too. But you can't

TL;DR "Helping people is evil." I get the point you're making of the people who didn't get the job that were hurt. And the employer was hurt too. But you can't put the blame on "helping people". Who you make friends with is 50% of success in life. Yes, you need to be social with other humans to get ahead in life. It's not all based on the quality of your github checkins. And it's not unfair. We're human. This is how we operate. It's reality.