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If you're on a "failing trajectory" but there's work in front of you, block out everything except for the work. If you can't handle that, then take a break and
by sibylsyndrome 10y ago
If you're on a "failing trajectory" but there's work in front of you, block out everything except for the work. If you can't handle that, then take a break and then get back at it. If it's something you really don't want to fail at, then there's probably something about it that you really love. Try to discover that again, without worrying about the untold future. If you focus in every moment, then you WILL make progress -- if only bit by bit.
Don't compare yourself to other people, but recognize that you're probably incredibly lucky to have any opportunity to fail at in the first place. Think about your accomplishments and setbacks as a set of experiences that will only ever help you in the future -- not as liabilities on paper.
Finally, don't complain. It's difficult at first, but it'll help keep you away from self-pity.
- andai 10y agoYour comment reminded me of Karma Yoga, the practice of taking action without attachment to the outcome.