> Having kids with two full-time working parents totally changes you. So much that it took 3 job changes to finally find the right balance - no more interesting

> Having kids with two full-time working parents totally changes you. So much that it took 3 job changes to finally find the right balance - no more interesting startups, it's relatively boring web stuff as freelancer for me. You can still do interesting startups! But I would strongly recommend: 1. Startups which support remote work well. (If you can survive and thrive as a freelance consultant, you've got the discipline to make this work.) 2. Startups with enough money to pay you salary. 3. Startups where at least some of the cofounders have kids. So no more pre-money startups in dubious makeshift "offices" in San Franciso run by brilliant and ambitious 23-year-olds, basically. I know, that spoils some of the fun, but it also reduces the outcome variance. (I also wake up at 5am and start my working day very early, giving me more flexibility later in the day. It helps.)