Congratulations. As a parent of 2 toddlers, here is what I suggest: Don't think too much. Spend as much time as possible with your kid. Give them a hug, make t

Congratulations. As a parent of 2 toddlers, here is what I suggest: Don't think too much. Spend as much time as possible with your kid. Give them a hug, make them laugh, always be around them if possible. Rest is all details that can always be worked out. Don't try to join the rat race of doing too many things. Don't plan too much. Kids will spoil it anyway. Trust me. Been there and still doing it. So enjoy the journey. Don't focus too much on "what are my aspirations for my kid". Instead, let them be. You know what kids really want and look up to ? Their parents/caregivers who are around them to listen to them and play with them. That is all they care about. Yes, activities are important but only a side effect.