> “There are men everywhere, but they’re all awful,” said Amanda*, a twentysomething professional whose recent dates have included a web developer who didn’t kn

> “There are men everywhere, but they’re all awful,” said Amanda*, a twentysomething professional whose recent dates have included a web developer who didn’t know the alphabet and a software developer who starting talking about marriage on the second date. Okay, nonchalance is cool and cool is sexy, but if you're turned off by your date's ability to imagine marriage, you're looking for a balance you'll never find.