And by "a lot" you mean a minority of people... > The typical social script is to condescendingly explain to them how they must be doing it wrong This is a ba

And by "a lot" you mean a minority of people... > The typical social script is to condescendingly explain to them how they must be doing it wrong This is a bad situation when the person has a problem. I have family with chronic fatigue (+chronic pain) and it's mentally hard to get how they feel, but I've learned that I cannot have the same expectations for them as others.