I'll have to inject another comment: a person cannot be condemned for their personality, just for their actions. Actions are specific, and need to be discussed

I'll have to inject another comment: a person cannot be condemned for their personality, just for their actions. Actions are specific, and need to be discussed in specific terms. Thus my statement "a percentage of men are assholes" was a too general statement for this discussion. "Some people are likely to spontaneously sexually abuse members of opposite sex in their vicinity and there are more men than female in this group" would have been more accurate.