In the US we, generally, make Chaplains available. They are a good option for this sort of thing. Though I would have to agree with dsp1234's overall assessmen

In the US we, generally, make Chaplains available. They are a good option for this sort of thing. Though I would have to agree with dsp1234's overall assessment of the situation with respect to racism and sexism in the military. It is what it is. But there is someone you can speak with about it.