The youthful idea is that parties are to be debauched to an extent. So being strictly straight laced makes people less comfortable about being debauched. Ultim

The youthful idea is that parties are to be debauched to an extent. So being strictly straight laced makes people less comfortable about being debauched. Ultimately though it comes down to your post: > then you probably shouldn't do it, ever. assuming (somewhat, not much but a little, the "personally" at the start saves it) that people should be like you. Conversely I feel that everyone should be everything they want to be. Drunk, smoked, high, clean, religious, atheist, etc. There is no "better" because there is no one objective context, there is just different and many.