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It's negative because you want it to somehow be a positive experience just because you enjoyed it. It's a constructive comment because hopefully seeing how you
by hashkb 10y ago
It's negative because you want it to somehow be a positive experience just because you enjoyed it.
It's a constructive comment because hopefully seeing how your words fell on someone else (e.g. me, to whom that just sounds like animal abuse and a traffic jam) will help you. I don't want to take away your joy, but you shouldn't be trying to share it. It's animal abuse that you enjoyed.
- woodruffw 10y agoThank you for the response. You're right in that it's not a "positive" experience simply because I enjoyed it. It's difficult to put into words the wonderment of the experience while fairly acknowledging its harmfulness and cruelty.