Heuristically, I suppose, if the "skew" is so obvious that you can see it without "score-keeping", then you avail yourself of a different approach. Which one?

Heuristically, I suppose, if the "skew" is so obvious that you can see it without "score-keeping", then you avail yourself of a different approach. Which one? I'm not your marriage counselor. But talking about it is probably a good start.