I believe "shame" in the grandparent post just means "pity". https://www.macmillandictionary.com/dictionary/british/oh-what-a-shame https://www.macmillandictio

I believe "shame" in the grandparent post just means "pity". https://www.macmillandictionary.com/dictionary/british/oh-what-a-shame https://www.macmillandictionary.com/dictionary/british/oh-wh... > used for expressing sympathy or disappointment