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I'm attempting not to pass judgement. Can you explain why it's helped?

• J-dawg 10y ago
  It has helped me understand why my marriage failed and made me realise how I need to behave differently when I start dating again. I must admit, a lot of the commenters there have extreme views and some of them come across as misogynists. However, for some reason I persevered and started reading some of the theory. What I read aligned so accurately with my previous experiences and the way I've been treated by women that I couldn't ignore it, and I've been hooked since then. Thank you for at least attempting not to pass judgement!
  • AznHisoka 10y ago
    what are some of those extreme views you disagree with? any you agree with?
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    • AznHisoka 10y ago
      Hello? Which ones do you disagree with?
      • J-dawg 10y ago
        Because of the subject matter, there's a lot of anger and bitterness in that subreddit, and people make a lot of sweeping generalisations. There's not much point getting into my specific opinions, everyone has to make up their own mind. All I know is the theory discussed there, and links to "manosphere" blogs have been useful to me. I mentioned it here in case it's useful to other people too.
  • King-Aaron 10y ago
    > for some reason I persevered and started reading some of the theory. What I read aligned so accurately with my previous experiences This is called confirmation bias.