My family always rhetorically asks "Why is this so hard?" or "Why does this never seem to work?" - which I never answer, because they are asking rhetorically, b

My family always rhetorically asks "Why is this so hard?" or "Why does this never seem to work?" - which I never answer, because they are asking rhetorically, but also because there are a lot of deep technical issues you need to know about before you understand the common implementation and then I'm not sure I can explain why we dont have a better implementation.