True. Yeah I don't know - our children were very little and I guess I think of a funeral as kind of byzantine thing for a handful of people to do. We also didn

True. Yeah I don't know - our children were very little and I guess I think of a funeral as kind of byzantine thing for a handful of people to do. We also didn't have a body in either case - maybe an empty box felt strange? I don't know. I am also very into breaking from traditions.