You're misunderstanding how attachment parenting works. In fact it's just as you'd like, that through this way of relating with your child/ren they become secur

You're misunderstanding how attachment parenting works. In fact it's just as you'd like, that through this way of relating with your child/ren they become secure in their own sense of self. It is when the parents too early leave the child alone that they don't form a stable sense of self.