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I'm currently struggling to learn this by myself (not fatherhood but surviving on my own) in my mid twenties. It is incredibly difficult only because I am in su
by HiroshiSan 10y ago
I'm currently struggling to learn this by myself (not fatherhood but surviving on my own) in my mid twenties. It is incredibly difficult only because I am in such a state of comfort that forcing myself to face difficult situations to learn and grow from, is hard.
- lisper 10y ago> It is incredibly difficult only because I am in such a state of comfort Simply recognizing this as a problem is a huge step in the right direction. The antidote is to travel on a very limited budget, particularly in third-world countries, and most especially somewhere you can get a work visa so you can get a job (and I'm not talking about a job as a developer, I'm talking about washing dishes). Keep enough money in reserve so that you can bail if you really need to, but try to limit yourself to using that escape hatch only in the direst of circumstances, like a real medical emergency. Spend a year doing that and you will learn more about life than from any college degree.
- beachstartup 10y agothe solution is easy. just get rid of your state of comfort. most people can't, because the real problem is something else.
- Throwaway23412 10y ago>the real problem is something else Would you like to elaborate or give examples of that something else?
- beachstartup 10y agofear.
- Mtinie 10y agoThat doesn't help. "Fear" of what, in your expert opinion?
- pavel_lishin 10y agoCan you take the gnomicism down a notch?
- pavel_lishin 10y agoJust because something is simple doesn't mean that it's easy.