If you want to frame it in terms of "winning and losing", how about your self-respect and dignity? It's not about proving a point or teaching a lesson, it's abo

If you want to frame it in terms of "winning and losing", how about your self-respect and dignity? It's not about proving a point or teaching a lesson, it's about being able to sleep at night. It's about taking control of your own life and seeking your own personal justice. Let people take advantage of you and roll over -- that's your prerogative. I will go to the ends of the Earth to defend myself when confronted.