> without an intent to shame or embarrass you the entire point of language and thought policing is to shame and embarrass people. you are doublespeaking to an

> without an intent to shame or embarrass you the entire point of language and thought policing is to shame and embarrass people. you are doublespeaking to an intelligent audience and it comes off creepy as hell. you sound brainwashed. also, this is basically lefty version of "i'm not a racist but..." nevermind you assumed gender, assumed it in the context of STEM (doubleplus ungood, comrade), assumed helplessness based on that gender, and assumed incorrectly that females do not have wet dreams/noctural emissions, all of which is pretty much the textbook definition of sexism, you sexist. most people call it whiteknighting because it's offensive, but just think it's normal because you live in a world where sexism is normalized.