>I might be considered a huge failure because I've devoted myself to raising my son (and learning lots of interesting things along the way) rather than to a tec

>I might be considered a huge failure because I've devoted myself to raising my son (and learning lots of interesting things along the way) rather than to a technical career. The system in place would consider you a failure because you haven't lived up to the expectations of what the system wanted you to do. No one can claim that as an absolute, no matter how hard they try. (;