I'd love to move somewhere smaller, but you'll have to persuade the wife. I think that is a big issue - large cities allow careers for both partners, where smal

I'd love to move somewhere smaller, but you'll have to persuade the wife. I think that is a big issue - large cities allow careers for both partners, where smaller cities are less flexible. In the old days it was common to move around to follow the husband's career where now it isn't that easy. OTOH one of the big differences in the old days more shops and services available to only large cities where now Amazon etc are everywhere.