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I'm going to give to the benefit of the doubt and not assume you are intentionally being misogynistic, so here's some light reading to help clear up why what yo

• tomp 10y ago
  I disagree. I stand firmly on the side of freedom of speech and judging people on their actions, not words. If anything, equating words with rape is what normalizes and trivializes rape! Edit: also, this moralizing that locker room talk perpetuates "rape culture" (I even dispute its existence in the West!) sounds eerily similar to the "shooting games encourage crime" panic we had a few years ago. Unless you have data to back it up, I dismiss this whole argument as made-up.
  • legodt 10y ago
    If you actually read those articles and still believe that, I want you to know that I legitimately find you frightening. This is about a person in a position of authority making a statement that normalizes sexual assault. This isn't video games. There are real victims and a culture that perpetuates this. He didn't grope somebody personally and get away with it, he did it in real life and bragged about it. I don't know how to break this down any further and that you tried to flip this into me normalizing rape culture is disgusting. Maybe you need to learn what rape culture is? Maybe it's time to stop pretending that anti-feminism isn't misogynistic. I hope I'm never near you in the real world because your words indicate a lack of care about actions to my body. I'm out.
  • rev_bird 10y ago
    > I stand firmly on the side of freedom of speech and judging people on their actions, not words. If anything, equating words with rape is what normalizes and trivializes rape! I think we're debating two different things: I don't think it should be illegal to brag about (real or imagined) assault, so we probably agree in that regard. However, words, especially from the powerful, affect how we perceive the actions of others, which is a big deal. If Trump approvingly says says that he can "grab 'em by the pussy," that's another voice making sexual assault sound like something people just do, and isn't a big deal. I don't really know what "locker room talk" even is, but when famous people happily tell stories of sexual assault, how could that not contribute to the idea that it isn't a grave offense?
    • tomp 10y ago
      Maybe he was bragging about being dominant? After all, sexual assault implies lack of consent, which is something you just assumed...