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By leaving the party and/or leaving things at that (and getting support from security/police/etc if things escalate). She shouldn't get back to her friend/boyf
by johnchristopher 10y ago
By leaving the party and/or leaving things at that (and getting support from security/police/etc if things escalate).
She shouldn't get back to her friend/boyfriend asking him to `fix` things caveman style. That's a very bad line of thinking and will usually get anyone close to her into troubles. It's like dating a walking grenade. Try not to.
- danharaj 10y agoYour ethics make public spaces hostile to vulnerable people.
- literallycancer 10y agoYour ethics make public spaces hostile to everyone. What if she mistook the guy for someone else? Then what, crowd beats a random guy to death?
- johnchristopher 10y agoNo, the thugs in the aforementioned story do that. The incident was already over. The girlfriend was asking for revenge (not justice) and the guy described in the article how he had to react « as a man ». That's escalation. Now if you are caught in the middle of such situations there a number of methods you can try to defuse the situation: http://lifehacker.com/ive-worked-bar-security-heres-how-to-talk-your-way-out-1789998817 http://lifehacker.com/ive-worked-bar-security-heres-how-to-t... (I know it's from lifehacker but the article has really good tips. Ignore the pictures).