Wow, everybody is super sensitive about women in tech, but it's ok to make comments like this? Talk about multicultural respect. Or maybe I am reading it wrong

Wow, everybody is super sensitive about women in tech, but it's ok to make comments like this? Talk about multicultural respect. Or maybe I am reading it wrong? Anyway, please be careful with this tone, it's very bad (as Italian, I know very well since 80% of the people I meet ask me "hey, what's up with mafia?").