I have been to too many bars over the decades. I usually went because I wanted to meet someone new. I had very mixed results. While I had mixed results; peop

I have been to too many bars over the decades. I usually went because I wanted to meet someone new. I had very mixed results. While I had mixed results; people did seem to interact with eachother. Yes--it was small talk, but interaction. Fast forward to today. The smart phone seems to have just ruined the experience all together. I can blame myself--I'm not the same social person? I've aged? I don't find people and their stories as interesting? Blah--blah--blah? I don't know? I do know that Phone Stare is really played out. It seems like everyone is engrossed in that screen? The last time I was out, I was in an Irish themed bar in San Francisco. The older Bartender was asked a question by a patron. "This place is dead?" He then said, "Maybe you should put the phone away? Plus, the led light brings out all the fine lines around the eyes?" Yea--it was kinda rude, but he said it in a joking way, and with that Irish accent it came across as kinda endearing. Someting a father might say? The phone eventually went into the bag. A person sat next to her, and asked her if he could buy her a drink. They talked, and talked. They genuinely seemed content-- I walked out, and it seemed like 90% of the patrons were still staring into that screen. All looked kinda misserable. I thought--what could be so interesting? A fifteen dollar drink, and waste the time on the screen? I don't know if we are going to put the phone away, but I hope I'm still around if that day comes. (I understand pulling out the phone if your socially awkward, or shy, but after awhile of Staring into the Abyss, put it away? And yes, if your at lunch putting together that huge business deal; I get it, but most of us just arn't that important. You're in a bar because your lonely. Admit it! Own it! Life is short--no one is judging you, nor cares. That phone is a huge turn off on so many levels. This goes two fold for guys.)