> I enjoy visiting my family > surrounded by people who don't care about you That's the difference. Not city vs. suburban. Where are the people that care abou

> I enjoy visiting my family > surrounded by people who don't care about you That's the difference. Not city vs. suburban. Where are the people that care about you and that you care about? That's where you will feel less socially isolated. I'd bet that if you went to a suburbia that doesn't contain your family, you'd feel just as isolated as you do in the city.