It's not about you. When there is a claim of, say, systematic rape at a place, it is both understandable and really offputting for random people to say "I work

It's not about you. When there is a claim of, say, systematic rape at a place, it is both understandable and really offputting for random people to say "I work there and didn't get raped." If anything, it comes across as kind of tone-deaf and toyish.