I totally understand your intention behind it. And it's ok to use strong tone. But as a matter of fact: a) Say you're not going to use strong / condescending t

I totally understand your intention behind it. And it's ok to use strong tone. But as a matter of fact: a) Say you're not going to use strong / condescending tone. b) Use strong / condescending tone. c) Express yourself in an honest manner. Pick two.