Go find your favorite busy coffee shop ( I know Seattle has good ones). Bring a real book and a magazine you like (not a kindle or an ipad). Sit in an open plac

Go find your favorite busy coffee shop ( I know Seattle has good ones). Bring a real book and a magazine you like (not a kindle or an ipad). Sit in an open place or community table, and half read your book, making sure that people can see the cover/title. If you see a young woman who is doing the same thing, strike up a conversation. Ask her about what she is reading. Talk about the article you are reading. Try to look for a common bond. That is how my husband met me 17 years ago. Worked for us! Good Luck. PS bag tinder, go find real people in real places that you like.