As an easterner, let me offer a little bit of a different view. This will likely get down voted to hell but let's see how tolerant HN really is. ;-) My advice:

As an easterner, let me offer a little bit of a different view. This will likely get down voted to hell but let's see how tolerant HN really is. ;-) My advice: get married. Find a match maker or a professional match match making service. You're 31. I don't know what point in the West (and now more in the east as well) it became normal to be unmarried in your 30s but it's really unhealthy from a mental health point of view. At this rate you're likely to get married in your late 30s (which isn't bad but it isn't for everyone I think). So my advice is get serious and get married ASAP