> I go to the gym at least 3 times a week What are you doing in the gym? From the point of view of aesthetics, doing cardio etc is basically a waste of time. F

> I go to the gym at least 3 times a week What are you doing in the gym? From the point of view of aesthetics, doing cardio etc is basically a waste of time. Focus on lifting weights and building muscle. I'm reliably informed that being 1. Muscular 2. Not fat and 3. Stylishly dressed will put you ahead of many men physically.