It's important to remember that the math of quantum mechanics, the math people use to model and predict phenomena, the math thats given us transistors, lasers,

It's important to remember that the math of quantum mechanics, the math people use to model and predict phenomena, the math thats given us transistors, lasers, quantum computing etc... That's all very accurate and extremely successful so anything that tries to explain why these models are the way they are is going to be pretty much the same as any other explanation if you tilt your head to the side and squint because they all have to produce the same very well specified set of mathematical models.