Actually, what the responders above are saying is no, they wouldnt. You are saying that you would. A great many other people are telling you the norms you have

Actually, what the responders above are saying is no, they wouldnt. You are saying that you would. A great many other people are telling you the norms you have internalized are quite different from the norms they internalized. Verbal norms change over time, just as other forms of norms change. You don't have to modify your norms to keep up with how the rest of society views those norms, but where they impact legal decisions your personal choice to reject the change in external norms may have a significant cost to you at some point.