It is indeed easy as a white male to miss the sexism and racism. It's only by being empathic and actually listen to victims that you learn to see it. If you di

It is indeed easy as a white male to miss the sexism and racism. It's only by being empathic and actually listen to victims that you learn to see it. If you dismiss accounts of victims or try to second-guess them like happens so often (examples abound in these comments), it should be no wonder that victims are hesitant to bring these issues up.