This guy did it wrong. Basic failure to understand social flows. Outsider in a large group? Your first job is to find someone with some status in the inside gro

This guy did it wrong. Basic failure to understand social flows. Outsider in a large group? Your first job is to find someone with some status in the inside group and befriend them. Find a girl the other girls seem to respect and make friends with her. Now you're no longer at the mercy of strangers--you have a crew. This also will calm your mamallian brain, as you'll feel your own status in the group rising. You also want to stand up for yourself from that start. That water bottle hassle? Just got alphad, as far as your brain is concerned. You have to manage your own psychology to succeed in these kinds of things.