> There does need to be a balance btwn hypercompetiton, and "everyone gets a trophy" mentality. Yes. Praise can be more damaging than criticism in many cases.[

> There does need to be a balance btwn hypercompetiton, and "everyone gets a trophy" mentality. Yes. Praise can be more damaging than criticism in many cases.[1][2] Certain types of praise in the form of encouragement can be very good things. Certain types of constructive criticism can be empowering. > a little pain and suffering makes you stronger What is "stronger"? More emotionally resilient? In my opinion, suffering just results in risk aversion. There is not a lot of positive that emerges from it. Note that I'm not referring to establishing boundaries, which may be what you're referring to with your daughter. [1] https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/smart-moves/201411/the-problem-praise https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/smart-moves/201411/the-... [2] http://www.parentingscience.com/effects-of-praise.html http://www.parentingscience.com/effects-of-praise.html