"There is a lot if hidden privilege that allows you to think for most people it is a choice." It's not hidden at all. I am quite privileged as are all of the

"There is a lot if hidden privilege that allows you to think for most people it is a choice." It's not hidden at all. I am quite privileged as are all of the people in first world economies of which we speak. You (yes, you) are among the top 1% wealthiest of the worlds population. I have no idea why the children of my comment assume a very, very false dichotomy of working through your child's childhood or becoming destitute. Now, more than ever, there is a huge swath of available and acceptable behavior between those two extremes.